Once, conflict was going on between the husband and his wife. When his mother visited them, the husband complained that his wife did not treat her well.
While his wife brought up a similar concern. The wife was upset because her husband had not treated her with respect in past. According to her, she simply reciprocated.
Both of them have since become adamant in their positions. The relationship suffered as a result.
One day, one of the wife's elderly relatives paid them a visit.
Despite their best efforts to maintain their relationship as natural as possible, her uncle was able to see through their attempts at camouflage.
The uncle attempted to comprehend the issue while they had breakfast. Soon, the husband and wife began accusing one another of the wrongdoings they had previously committed against one another.
Her uncle recognized the issue. He started saying that stressing that there was nothing we could do about what had already transpired. Time has just one direction.
Time always goes in one direction, from the past to the present and from the present to the future.
The passage of time cannot ever be turned around. No matter how hard one tries, one thing is certain, one cannot travel back in time.
We have control over the present time only. God has not provided us with the ability to travel back in time. We can not correct the errors that we have made in the past.
We can only memorize our past, which is the only choice we have. Either we can forgive the I'll deeds and there by can improve our relationship, or we can spoil our relation ship by memorizing the I'll deeds done in past. Why not to use the better option!
The issue has been fixed. Young couple have realized that remembering past ill actions won't get them anywhere. Correcting them is better. The uncle was smiling, as were the husband and wife.
They now know that it is pointless to continually bring up wrongdoings from the past. The key to their relationship improving was greater memory.
It is better to use the present to improve one's own future rather than memorizing the negative past.
Ajay Amitabh Suman: All Rights Rerved
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